'Ello there!

So I know, I'm a bad person. I haven't been on to blog in forever! But just so you know, I have been busy. Between redoing my hallway closet, babysitting, working on a school project, AP homework, and just plain chilling, I've been awfully busy. But here is a post that should tide you over a little bit :)

BRINA TALKS ABOUT DATING!!!!!!!
So one of my best friends had been dating this guy for the past year, actually over a year. And they were an awesome couple, they worked together in the relationship, it wasn't just one side putting in the effort. She let him hang out with his friends, and he let her hang out with hers. And he would even come with her to some of her friends parties, even though not all us liked him, he would go to make her happy. And they were cute too. So then, in June, he suddenly says, I don't feel a spark anymore. Lets break up, because I don't want to hurt you. Okay fair enough, maybe he just doesn't feel anything, I mean they've been together for a year, maybe he got bored or something. It wasn't even that he wasn't getting any though, they were having sex! Anyway they broke up. They talked about it after and decided to be best friends. So then this week, he gets a new profile picture. Its of him and some chick. My friend gets a little angry, but oh well, maybe they're just friends right. Wrong. Then yesterday, I get a message saying, Hes in a relationship with the girl in the pic, and I'm all...Fuck no, he cheated on her while they were in the relationship and that's why he broke up with her. I didn't tell her that though. So then she messaged him and is all, guess you never loved me and blah blah blah, and he goes, well I didn't come on to her, she came on to me. BS, right? Anyway the moral of this long and drawn out story, is that every relationship comes with the things guys and girls should always do, and should never do. And each of those was apparent in there relationship. So here is my small list of dating do's and don'ts.
Do's:

1. Do always listen to your partner. Even if you're really not interested in what they're saying, just listen, because it might either come up later when he/she asks about what you two were talking about, or it might give you some insight on them or just give you guys something to talk about in general. I know some people do not like gossip, but sometimes it might be funny to know that so and so when they were having sex with so and so like sprained there something or another. ;)
2. Do things that you might not always be interested in, but they are. They want to go see a entirely action packed, car chase filled movie, do it. Hell even ask if they want to go see it. Its just something for you two to do together that's fun for at least one of you and makes him/ her happy.
3. Do let them hang out with there friends. If they want to go hang out with there buddies, let them, if he gets up to mischief, then he does. You are not his/her mother, or even in control of him/her. If they want to hang out somewhere where there is people of the opposite sex, let them. Trust them to not do anything stupid, if he/she does do something stupid. Then its there own problem because they missed out on having a great relationship with you.
4. You guys are partners in the relationship. Its not always up to one person to plan the dates, same as its not always up to one person to buy the chocolate on valentines day. Share the love!

Don'ts:

1. Don't ever have two partners at the same time because chances are one of your friends will let something slip, or they'll meet eachother, or something will happen and you'll be single.
2. Don't cheat. If you find yourself falling for another person, break up with the first one because if you truly loved the first one you wouldn't have fallen for the second one.
3. Don't ever try to cover your sorry ass with a lie because somehow you will get found out. And don't make up a BS response to why you suddenly have a new partner. We all know you were scoping her out long before.
4. Don't ever put up with an abusive relationship. You're always going to think, I know he/she is better than this. He/she is a better person. He/she brings me flowers after. He/she says sorry. We have great make-up sex. And you will probably say this until the day you end up in the hospital. Or even after that, when you go back to him/ her because they said sorry and they "really" seemed like they mean it. Hell in your head you will probably think when he/she is screaming in your ear and hitting you and abusing you, this isn't him/ her. But it is and that will always be a part of them. It doesn't mean you have to put up with it.

That's all for today. Have a lovely day my dears!  Love you all!

Song

I'm so sorry guys, I promise I'll do a real post soon, but for now here is an amazing song done by George Morgan, just another Youtube artist, but this song is good! Sounds like a lot of songs on the radio lately. Here ya go!

(the video is done by Sawyer Hartman, who does short films and vlogs and such on youtube)

RIP

Goodness there has been to many deaths lately.
RIP Trayvon Martin Find out more here
Talia Castellano Find out more here
Cory Monteith Find out more here
There you all go. I hope that they're all happy where they are and really, I hope that Zimmerman will pay for what he did. I will not go into politics ever on this blog and that is the most I will ever say on this topic. I hope there families are doing well and that while they were all living that they lived happy lives.
I wish you well to anyone else who has lost a family member, friend, acquaintance, enemy, or animal. Or even imaginary friend, RIP to all of them. Love you all and I will post something less depressing soon :)

Inspiration journal

So I finally figured out what I can fo to make up for not doing Thursdays post! This is something I just started today and I call it

Inspiration Notebook!

So yeah, I will give captions along with my pics! Love ya!

So start with a journal. It should be relatively large because your gonna put cut outs in it.

So now I added a cover page/title. You don't have to do this, or you can make it look a lot more inventive than mine :)

So here is just one of my pages. On the left I put a bunch of images that I thought were cool
and then on the left I put a central image and then quotes, you can work the=is however you want. You can take images of friends, magazine cut outs, writing, anything at all. Be Creative!

Most of all, Have fun! Good luck!

Idk guys...

I DONT KNOW WHAT TO WRITE! So Imma gonna put up my favorite picture that I draw all the time! I put it in all of my friends yearbooks :)

There ya go! Have fun with that, draw something or somethin'! love ya

BOYS!

            OMG, I was just on vacation and I couldn’t blog, I feel bad. So we are going to skip Thursday, because I am not sure how much I like the how-to thing, and move on to Saturday and Monday. So this post, Saturdays post, will be about boys! We all know what they are correct? If not here are a few defenitions to get you started:

Dictionary: A male child or young man

Urban Ductionary:

11.  “an animal that can talk” (why do you want to know)

22.“the most wonderful things on earth... espesically the sweet ones... and the cute ones... they sometimes turn though and become meanies that make you cry” (blondie4495)

33. “A male. A child under 18 with a penis and testicals” (Haleigh)

Thanx lovely contributors to Urban Dictionary, you make part of this post possible!

Me: They are a human with a penis and balls. They grow chest hair and facial hair and have something in between there legs that drop when they hit puberty. These are called balls by the way. They can be manipulative, annoying, frustrating, hurtful, perverted, and childish. But they can also be caring, sweet, hugable, kissable, not to mention hot. There are all different kinds of boys. Short ones, tall ones, skinny ones, fat ones, in between ones, and no matter what there is a boy to fit your paticular fancy.

            So there are a few definitions, but still you’re confused! What makes up a guy? Now I just realized that I said to be a guy, you have to have a dick in your pants. I didn’t mean that, sorry. Being a guy is more than that part of you. Its what goes on your head as well. If I was a guy and knew what the inside of a guys head was like I’d tell you all about how we’re all different, but I’m not sure how. All is sometimes a guy, isn’t a guy on the outside, but really its whats inside that counts. Anyway onto how you are still confused on what guys look like, what they act like. And I can’t tell you exactly what they act like, all I know is that they pee standing up and in there restrooms there isn’t stalls for pissing, they all go to urinals. So then wouldn’t it be if they wanted to compare dicks that they could just look over? Everyone must check eachother out in restrooms.

            I know that would mean there homo, but everyone does it. Girls look at other girls and go, “OMG, her outfit is so cute!” Or “Holyshit, that chicks boobs were not that big yesterday!” Anyway, sorry, off topic and this post is getting long. So back to your confusion. Guys look like this:

 K, so here is an example of a nerdy guy. See glasses. This can also be construed as hipster. This is a cute nerdy guy, I should of put up a picture of Darrin Criss as well. :P Too bad (This is Andrew Garfield, by the way)

 Here is a guy, where if any girl saw him walking down the street would fall over in extreme sexual need. I mean holy shit, can you say attractive?? (This is Channing Tatum)

 Here is your typical jock. See Letterman jacket. Not all jocks wear these, but most will have some kid of sports attire on at some point. (this is some guy from glee)

 They can have green eyes. These green eyes are really attractive. Holy shit nuggets.

 Here is a scene/emo guy. Sometimes the either the most shelled in or the most emotional of the bunch. Have amazing hair! (This is Kellin Quinn)

Some guys have brown eyes and really cocky looks on there faces. Holy shit his face looks like, I think I'm so attractive and I know you want to fuck me. Um, no? (This is Taylor Lautner)

Some guys have blue eyes! This guy looks like a total cutie and his eyes are amazing! :)

And some guys just have this amazing smile. (This is Heath Ledger)

So, my lovelies, Thats all for this post. My definition of guys! Love ya, buh-byes!

Foods!

            So I said that I would do a food post, and here it is my dears! So first of all, a little about my life with food. (I said this blog would involve confessions didn’t I?) So in the 7^th grade, I thought I was fat. I weighed less than 100 lbs. I was not in any way fat, but because a guy was being a dick and told me I was. (Kat if your reading this, don’t call me right that second, I will most likely be asleep :P) So I refused to eat lunch and barely any breakfast. I got down to about 8-0 something pounds. Now I know that doesn't soundbad, but it was because I had zero self confidence in myself even when I weighed 8o something pounds. Went on for a whole year. Once he left, let’s call him Dickwad for the remainder of this blog. So once Dickwad left, I felt a little better, but not much. But I did eat lunch again, thus gaining weight. I got to about 120 lbs. and that’s where I have stayed. But consider this. I am 5 ft tall, have 32 D boobs, and a bubble butt. I think I’m fine. So lesson learned here, do not listen to the Dickwads in your life. They’re everywhere! You just have to learn how to deal with them and ignore them.

            So back to my relationship with food. I fucking love it. I want to marry food, but then I would have to have sex with it or something and that’s no good…no good at all. Imagine having sex with sushi, can you say ew! Hahaha jk jk. Alrighty, putting on my serious face. -_- Now if I were to list all my favorite foods and restaurants, I would have to take up an entire blog. One post on Burgers, one on chinese food, one on Deep Fried Twinkies, You get the picture. This post is going to be on my favorite foods of each food group, deserves a headline dontcha think?

Favorite Foods of Each Food Group!!

Grains: Bread! It doesn’t matter what kind, I just Love it!

Dairy: oh this one is hard…I’ll have to go with ice cream cuz I’m not the biggest fan of milk but I do love Ice Cream!...or cheese! OMG I LOVE CHEESE!!! Any cheese, string cheese, mozzarella, chedder, goat cheese, lamb cheese, hell even blue cheese! Just fucking amazing.

Meat: Pork chops…Idk y, they’re just yummy. Especially with apples! 

Fish: had to split meat and fish up, I can’t choose between D: SUSHI!! ‘Nuf said.

Fats, oils, and sweets: How can I choose? Lets go with Deep Fried Twinkies :D You are all staring at the screen in disgust aren’t you? And after my long heartfelt story about my year dealing with thinking I’m fat your probably thinking wtf, this girl lies. No I am not lying, they are the best, but I only discovered them after I stopped caring bout all the weight shit. They are sweet and yummy and I only have them when I go to the Boardwalk in Santa Cruz. No judgement on this blog!

Fruit: raspberries…or pineapple….or mango…or peaches….or apricots…or blackberries…or strawberries…HOLY SHIT why are there so many fruits! D:

Veggies: Peas! Idk y, they’re just yummy! Have you ever tried them while they’re still frozen? They’re actually really good! Well if it wasn’t peas, it would probably be either tomatoes (technically a fruit, but whatever) or cucumber.

Alrighty well, there’s that post. I’ll probably do another one somewhere down the line. So talk to me, whats your favorite food? Have you ever had issues eating, talk to me my dears! I loves yous!